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9 months update

As at today im 9 months pregnant already... to be exact, its 36 weeks and 4 days... my EDD is on 20 July 2011..

So my last check up was on 22 June 2011 at Kuantan Specialist Hospital... initially i was suppose to go for check up at Prince Court Hosp. on 24 June, but hubby ada Team Building at Tekam, Pahang, this weekend... So that's why we change it to KSH for check up this week...

Anyway, during my last maternity check up... baby's head in right position (kt bawah, on the spot dh, BINGO) hehe.... heartbeat was good, back bones, hands, air ketuban, semua seems to be good and normal.... but to my suprise.... the weights of this lil princess is now 3.05 kilos! ahaaa..... O.M.G..... yerp, when i heard doctor said.... "berat baby skang dah...... 3 kilos yerrr....." and smile to me...... i wasnt expected that doct.... huhuuu....sbb nyer... kalau now she's 3 kilos... by the time on 20 Jul later, entah brapa kilos agaknyer..... and chances to deliver it normal, hrmmmmm very lightly lah nmpak nyer..... like during Hafiy's time... he's 3.44 kilos and i had to go for c-sec... so, the second one nih.... hrmmm, tak tau lagi la.... doct Suraya ask us to start planning NOW... decide, wanna go for c-sec or still wanna try for normal or any other plans in mind lah.... she said that because if we decide to go for c-sec, than by 6 July, i can deliver the baby already, that time the baby 38 weeks and matured enuf to see Mummy... huhuuu...

Well, kitorang didnt expect that we need to start planning now...so, we discuss this over and over... dlm kereta, tgh makan, tgh tunggu WUM di servis kt Honda, tgh minum, tgh jalan, even kitorg start discussing on the names for this baby jgk... hahahaa.... semua discuss habes lah....

So, finally we decided, by 1st July, i'll standby already kt my mother's house (bangi)... we see that the chances to get normal delivery sgt tipis, likelyhood kene ceaser kot... dgn memikirkan skang pon i feel sooooo in pain kt tulang pinggul, can't walk properly, tgh duduk pon sakit.... it hurt soo bad! but anyway, biler 1 Jul tuh dh standby kt KL, then we consult dgn doc Aziz plak lah... we'll see how it goes, apa advice from him pulak... sbb i can tell you, doc suraya and doc aziz has quite a diff thoughts... semua doc mcm tuh kot... heheee.... and doc aziz pon dh plan nk buat MRI to me on 13 Jul.... i think maybe i wanna request it earlier than that kot... tgk lah mcm mana....

well anyway, sorry Boss and colleagues semua.. i know uolls wish me to stay dlu atleast the first week of July.... but, i think, i have to think about myself jgk kan..... in the end, this is what matters the most, family, kids, and our own healthy.... right???.... not saying that im being selfish, but im being reasonable enuf and balance it between work and my precious life.... huhuuu, emo2.....

okla2.... acctually i wanna record this just for my reference later and for sharing some info/experience with other mummy to be out there....

In 9 months pregnant for my second child, it is soo different from the first one.... i can say, much tougher and challenging this time:-

- when i'm walking, i feel SOOOO painful! rasa macam tulang pelvik/ tulang pinggul senget atau lari alingment dia ke hape ntah... sakit sgt2, tapi i hv to tahan jerla...

- i don't feel comfortable at all sitting on a sofa ke, on a chairs ke, even duduk bersila, bersimpuh ke, duduk lah gaya macam mana pon, sangat tak selesa.... rasa sakit kt tulang belakang, rasa perut cam nk jatuh sbb berat sgt ke depan...

- time nak tido is the most MISERABLE! sbb nyer... biler nak kalih badan ke kiri or ke kanan, ARGGGGGHHH! waktu itulah yg plg SEKSA sekali.... sbb kene tahan rasa sakit di bahagian tulang pelviks tuh, mcm rangka tulang aku tuh dh senget-benget lah, then u force it to support u time nk pusing kiri kanan tuh, GGGRRRRR! giler sakit, smpai cam nk nangis2....

- lain pulak dlu, time hafiy, i can't sleep and crying over the night because he won'ts stop kicking, stretching inside there.... yg 2nd ni pulak, xder la menganggu mummy sleeping, cuma sakit2 tulang mummy yg getting very the worst experienced of my life....

- my stomach was soooooooo big and 'tajam' ke depan! and most of the dress and maternity pants sudah fit! sbb perut tuh 'tajam' sgt ke depan... soo, biler pakai maternity pants tuh mcm dh tak muat and tak selesa sgt dh... prefer pakai dress lagi senang lah....

- i'm hungry like every 1 hours... asyik nk makann ajer and biler dh makan tuh pulak, i can eat more than usual kot.... even after i drink Herbalife Shake, i can still eat rice and feel hungry lagik... huhuuuu.... (gemuk la mcm ni...)

- sgt challenging jgk biler kiter pregnant and with a toddler boy nih, sbb dia suker nk bergomol2 dgn mummy dia, baring atas my big tummy, tendang2 perut yg besar nih, kdg2 dia pukul2 perut ni.. PERGHH!!! sakit tak terkata.... klo mummy rasa sakit sendiri tuh takperla lagi.... ni takut kang ada effect ape2 kot nti kt baby tuh yg worries me.... Hafiy is only 2 years old, can't blame him bcoz he dont quite get it that he'll having a lil sister nanti... even though we all dh explain soo many times kt dia dh.... huhuuu...

- haaaa, lagi satu.... during 2nd nih, i keep repeating rasa mcm mengah2 and mcm susah nk breathing, mcm tiba2 dada tuh rasa kene 'himpit' and di 'pressure' tau.... mcm jantung tuh tiba2 functioning very slow..... tak tahu kenapa... it happens in any time, tgh duduk depan komputer ke, tgh driving ke, tgh tgk tv ke, tgh makan ke, tgh berjalan ke, tgh tido ke, ANY time lah.... weird sgt, but it only last like 2-3 minutes laaa.... pastu hilang blk.... and it happens everyday..... pelik kan...

sooo, basically, that's it a bit of some info/experience sharing yang nak citer-citer kt sini....

mana tau, later on i can refer back to this entry, kot2 preggy lagi for the 3rd ke 4th ke.... heheee...

well, mmg la klo ingt balik, it's very tough tau sbnrnya all mummies kene harungi time preggy ni... but, pikir kan blk, every pain we felt is 'Pahala' to us..... i'm glad and feel blessed.. =)

hopefully, this baby will be healthy cute lil girl and mummy can't wait to meet you dear.... same goes to your big brother, hafiy.... im sure he's 'excited' also.... hahaaaa, can't wait to see his reaction nanti!

Wish me luck and i think, maybe ntah2 my next entry post is 'the born of our lil princess' pulak... hahaaa....

With love... HH

hafiy(2 yrs) with his cousin Khalish(3 mths)...

Solat ketika hamil

Well, during my previous pregnancy pon i'm facing problem to perform solat... it start when i've reach the 3rd trimester... i had backache, gone through fisio-terapi segala bagai and also had to perform solat sambil duduk di kerusi...

And as expected.... yang second time ni jugak... im having same problem... my tulang pinggul was sooo in pain! even when I'm walking also rasa sakit, but tahan jerla kan... and during solat jugak, i realize i get easily tired and sakit and uncomfortable... i can feel like macam i mengah-termengah masa solat, macam baru lepas berlari pecut 100mtr... huhuuuuu....

so, today, i google here and there, and found this very useful article how to solat duduk ketika hamil....very useful info... so, im proud to share with all mommy-to-be out there....

Sharing is Caring baybeh... hehe...

Soalan 1: Solat Ketika Hamil

Saya kini sedang sarat mengandung di mana usia kehamilan sudah masuk tujuh bulan. Perubahan berat badan membuatkan saya sukar bersolat secara berdiri dan akan mengakibatkan kaki sakit dan susah bangun jika melakukannya juga. Bolehkah wanita hamil bersolat secara duduk? apakah kriteria yang boleh melakukannya? Terima kasih.

Normala, Pasir Mas, Kelantan.

M

Jawapan:

Islam adalah agama yang memahami kesukaran yang kadangkala dihadapi oleh umatnya. Allah SWT berfirman: "Dan Dia (Allah) tidak menjadikan kamu menanggung sesuatu keberatan dan susah payah dalam perkara agama." [al-Hajj 22:78]. Merujuk kepada ibadah solat, Allah berfirman: "(Iaitu) orang-orang yang menyebut dan mengingati Allah semasa mereka berdiri dan duduk dan semasa mereka berbaring mengiring." [Ali Imran 3:191].

Sebahagian ahli tafsir berpendapat ayat di atas antara lain merujuk kepada ibadah solat kerana solat itu sendiri sati bentuk ingatan dan sebutan kepada Allah. Maka jika seseorang itu sukat untuk solat secara berdiri maka dia solat secara duduk dan jika tetap sukar, maka dia solat secara berbaring. [Tafsir al-Qurtubi, 3/773]. Kadar sesukaran yang membolehkan seseorang itu solat duduk atau baring berbeza-beza mengikut individu, yang penting dia bersikap jujur kepada Allah dalam mengukur kesukaran yang dihadapinya.

Di antara kesukaran tersebut ialah melaksanakan solat ketika sedang hamil. orang yang hamil meghadapi kadar kesukaran yang berbeza-beza. Bagi sebahagian orang mereka tetap dapat melaksanakan solat seperti biasa sehinggalah ke saat bersalin. Sebahagian lagi menghadapi kesukaran, khasnya apabila memasuki trimester ketiga. Maka bagi kes ini, dibolehkan baginya untuk solat secara duduk.

Cara solat duduk ialah duduk secara bersila di atas lantai dengan menghadap kiblat. [Shahih Sunan al-NAsa'e, no:1660]. Rukuk dengan membongkokkan badan dengan kedua-dua tangan memegang lutut. sujud adalah seperti biasa, namun jika mengalami kesukaran maka bongkokkanlah badan lebih rendah berbanding rukuk dengan kedua-dua tangan menyentuh lantai.

Jika sukar untuk duduk bersila, pilihan lain ialah duduk sepertimana duduk di antara dua sujud. Jika masih sukar pilihan lain ialah duduk di atas kerusi. Pergerakan untuk rukuk dan sujud adalah sepertimana penjelasan di atas (duduk bersila).

So mommies... Solat tak boleh tinggal yerp....... not excuses.... heheee...

With Love.... HH

how's everything??

Today, I'm 28 weeks pregnant (7 months) to be exact... This morning, I went to KSH (Kuantan Specialist Hospital) for regular check up. Actually, the initial plan was supposed to go for check up last week at PCMC (Prince Court Medical Centre)... But UNFORTUNATELY for me and the baby, we had to cancel the appointment due to 'a golf game' that this man so called the father of this baby, had to attend...
Well.... To be a understanding and a very supportive wife, I'm okay with it and request PCMC to postpone our check up date to another appointment. Since my ubat-ubatan pon is running out of stock, I plan to go to KSH instead for check up and restock all those supplements..

How HAPPY I am! When the doc scan this lil baby inside me... Perfectly and with clear image, we could see her faces... The nose, the mouth, the eyes, hands.... Ouhhhhhhh, it really does touched my heart, indeed... Nearly wanna cry but too shy as infront of the doc and nurse... The doc said, everything looks good, the baby's weight currently 1.1kg, uri position is up, air ketuban looks ok, but baby's head is up, she looks like a in a sitting position.. But doc said its fine, she still hv times to move and turn later...

So far, myself am good.. Nothings major complication or pains.. Only sometimes saja kejang urat kaki and rs pedih-pedih sikit kat perut.. And of course, when ur in 3rd trimester.. 24 HOURS... Ull feel uncomfortable of yourself, your body.. Tido pon susah, berdiri pon tak larat, even duduk pon serba tak kena, baby's won't stop moving, not only kicking, but also stretching and pushing our stomach.. Ooouuchh! Huhuuu... As expected laaaa kan.. Baru 7 months, nanti dah 9 months, fuhhh, lagi TERASA dia punya strength menendang, men-strecthing.. Hahaaa..

Yes true.... It is REALLY uncomfortable.. But after this 9 months journey.. Ill bet you, any mummies will miss this experience.. Kaannnn... Hihiii..

Anyway, another 2 months to go, or maybe less... Wish me luck and safe to go thru all this, again... Hihiii... Amin


With love,
HH