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Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Confinement a.k.a Berpantang

What does it mean by confinement? Why women must go for confinement after delivery? How was it?

Most people don't really quite get it what is it about confinement, especially guys... kan kan... during my recent confinement, my lil brother (who was not so little..hihi) ask me "kenapa orang pompuan kene berpantang yer? nak makan ape-ape pon makan jerla..kan.. doctor takde kate xboleh pon.. kan) huuhhh??
Alaaaahai... my brother... he's too young too understand kot...

to me there's no specific rules or guide on how woman go thru confinement period... it depends on you, it depends on your mother/mother-in-law, it depends on your environment... YES, memang confinement method boleh ada macam-macam gaya... ada guna cara traditional, ada yang lebih ke modern style... semua cara boleh pakai, sebab tgk atas badan si ibu jugak... lain badan, lain treatment nyer.. bukan semua orang sama.. kan...kan..

like myself... sudah experience dua kali confinement and i tell you... both are totally different... haaaa, nak tau kenapa... sebab for myself, the confinement method depends on my MOTHER.... yerla kan, i berpantang di rumah ibu saya, sure la kene ikut rules and gaya dia... kan...

well, masa deliver yang 1st child, saya berpantang di Ampang.. yes masa tu our family still live in Ampang lagi, rumah lama lagi banyak nostalgia itu... ouhh rumah tuh masih standing lagik yerr(hehee..) currently tidak di huni oleh sesiapa... papa have no intention to sell or rent to anybody sbb nak save utk anak2 katanya... mana tau, nanti saya kene transfer KL pulak ke... hihiii...

ok ok.. back to the subject matter... masa 1st child, mama sangat strict and more to traditional style lah...
1. air hanya boleh minum sikit2 ajer.. semua air panas or suam.. sejuk2 cannot!
2. makan cuma bubur and ikan haruan...
3. ikan haruan tuh di bakar shj... (ouhh xlupa jg minum air polleney tuh everyday)
4. tak da makanan berminyak.. banyak yg bakar-bakar and rebus2..
5. minum air kunyit pekat tuh konon naikkan SERI muka..
6. minum air asam jawa masam pekat likat..
7. BANYAKKK makan blackpepper... fuhhh mmg berpeluh2 youuu...
for 44 days... ituuu shj masuk dlm perut.... tapi kadang2, mama bagi kelonggaran, bagi jugak la makan daging sekali-dua and gulai kari sikit2...

sempat amik picture of my lunch tray masa confinement first child dulu


untuk pakaian pulak.... MESTI pakai sweater tebal all the time, tak kira siang ke, nk tido ke, mesti pakai sweater.. katanya taknak masuk angin dalam badan... pastu socks tebal of course la kan kene pakai sentiasa! kain batik and t-shirt kt dalam...

BURUK gilersss, perut masih BONCIT.. ni kalau tak silap baru a week after delivery


NO COMFY! sentiasa berpanas... tak boleh ber-aircond, tak boleh ber-kipas kuat2... memang PANASSSS! dah la pakai sweater and socks tebal, kipas speed slow je.. pastu kt badan ni.. haaa banyak giler macam jenis krim jamu ke amende entah sapu kt perut, belakang, betis, tapak kaki, kat dahi pon ada... namanya pilis kot yang sapu kat dahi tu.. hehe.... pastu rambut panjang kan, kene ikat tinggi2, macam ala-ala singh tuh... (eh, betul ke saya eja 'singh') ada sebab tuh kenapa kena ikat macam tu... i think sebabnyer nak bagi urat2 tuh tertarik and tegang semula la kott gituu... 

saya bersama mak bidan urut saya... masa ni sudah 30 hari rasanya


haaaaa, kan kan saya dh cakap... memang kronik tak selesa (kadang2 stress melanda jgk) masa 1st child dlu... but the results... saya turun 10kg during confinement tuh... sebab saya rajin home sauna time tuh... sehari mesti 2 kali masuk sauna duduk tuh.. sekali sauna, 30 minutes.... perghhh, memang banyak lemak2 saya ni burn laaa.. ngehehee..


saya yang sudah habis pantang 1st child


Muhammad Hafiy

TETAPI...... lain pulak style Mama saya ni masa confinement yang baru-baru ni, for 2nd child delivery....

okay.... kalau nak tau macam mana my confinement yang baru-baru ni.... tunggu my next entry post yer... yang 2nd, ni memang lebih menarik and BEST sgt okay!

Keep checking my updates yer readers!
(urhh, ade ke reader kat my blog nieyh??)

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With love.. HH



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